Monday, November 13, 2017

Pointer Brand - A Reminder of Home

My Grandpa Caveny wore bib overalls – everyday – all the time. I’m sure he wore regular pants from time to time, but I have no memory of it.  He was a high back, blue denim man.  But, he didn’t just wear any overalls – he was exclusive consumer of L.C. King’s Pointer Brand.

It would make for a better story to say that he was a fan of Pointers because of brand loyalty or due to their hunting/work wear heritage.  It would be even better if he had sold a bird dog to Landon Clayton (LC) King during the Great Depression and was paid with a lifetime supply of King’s overalls.  My imagination could easily brew a fantastical story.

The fact is that Grandpa probably bought what was locally available and never saw a need to change.

Maybe that is the story.

After I became a wildlife officer and moved away from my community, I found myself looking for little things that reminded me of home.  I decided I wanted a pair of bib overalls and of course those had to be Pointers.

Over the years, I have stuck with Pointers.  I gave the low-back version a trial once, but they didn’t feel right.  And I do wear another brand for hunting.  I write that in a whisper out of deference to Grandpa Caveny.

***

In recent years I have become captivated with storytelling.  Specifically, I’m fascinated with how stories define and reinforce culture.  We tell stories that help us make sense out of things that are otherwise difficult to understand.  Those stories are foundational to our beliefs and we hold to them tightly even when science may disprove our storied versions of our philosophies. 

We tell other stories that identify the values that define the principles we must adhere to be a part of our tribe.  I often found myself in difficult, sometime dangerous, situations when I was a wildlife officer.  When I was with another wildlife officer, I knew I could trust them to “have my back” because we shared common values.

Beliefs and values are at the core of culture.  Those attributes define who we are and what we believe.  Those components drive our actions and how we interact with the world.  We like to view them as impenetrable and unwavering, but the fact that many of us experience a shift in what we believe and value over the years show that these bedrocks of culture can shift or change.

To resist that change, we engage in a variety of binding practices.  These rituals, traditions, symbols, various art forms, and relationships are like cords that wrap tighter and tighter around our beliefs and values to keep them intact.  When I felt like I was losing my connection with home and family I bought a pair of Pointer overalls.  This symbol had such a profound impact on me that I bought a pair of Pointers for my grandson, Jackson, last year.

All of this was refreshed for me this week. I wore my bibs last weekend and during the wash, the hook on one of the galluses broke.  Although they have a small tear on one of the legs, the overalls still have a lot of wear left in them.  I hated the thought of throwing them away over a broken hook.

So, I took a chance and called L.C. King’s factory in Bristol, Tennessee.  The phone rang a couple of times and was answered by a chipper woman.  I told her my problem and asked if it was possible to get a replacement hook.  She said, “Sure,” and then asked for my address.  I asked about payment.  She said there was no charge and that she would get it in the mail that afternoon.  They arrived two days later.

Now, Pointer has taken on additional meaning.  The brand not only reinforces family and community, but adds service and trust.  It means something when I wear them.  It reminds me who I am.

We buried Grandpa Caveny in a white dress shirt and a new pair of Pointer bid overalls.  It was the perfect choice.

Tuesday, August 29, 2017

Am I Privileged?

After being accepted into a leadership program at the Kansas Leadership Center in 2016, I received an email with the bios of the 30+ participants.  I scrolled quickly through the list and was instantly struck by the notion that I had stepped into the deep end of the pool.  While most came from Kansas, there were participants from Australia, South America, Canada, Europe, and across the United States.  There were college professors, counselors, and consultants from the business world.  The majority were women.  Virtually all had advanced degrees.  It was a smart group.  I was definitely in over my head.  Maybe I didn't belong in this program.

By the second afternoon of the week-long class, I felt I knew the answer to that question.  I was struggling.  The class schedule was chocked-full and there was little time to catch a mental break.  Around 4:00 pm that second day, I was watching the clock - ready for some down time.  Then from a spot near the front of the class and slightly to my right, I was jolted back into the classroom with two words: white privilege.

I missed the exchange leading up to those words, but when I heard them my first thought was, “Okay, now it’s gonna get interesting.”  I sat up a straight and dialed in my senses.  I quickly realized this wasn’t an abstract, offhand comment and that the phrase included an unspoken word: white male privilege.

The speed at which I went from curious to pissed was astounding.  A 30ish year-old Korean American woman had tossed this grenade into the room.  The evening before, I sat with her during dinner.  I had learned that she was widely travled - the first in her family born in America - and that she was educated at Harvard. 

I made a quick mental comparison.  My mom and dad grew up in poverty.  Both dropped out of school at an early age.  My mom was 16 when they were married and I was born the following year.  Daddy worked 55 hours a week for 40 years with the same company before being “downsized” out of a job at 59 years of age.  While I consider them both successful - they are extremely successful -  nothing in their lives came without hard work.

My childhood was much easier due to their determination to break that cycle of poverty.  They sacrificed so I could have piano lessons and never balked at buying us books.  I went to the community college after high school and received a vocational diploma.  I spent five years in an auto body shop before taking a job as a wildlife officer.  At 34 I went back to college and spent most of the next six years working on an associate’s degree, taking a promotion (which required a relocation) and then finishing up my undergraduate degree online.  As I was wrapping up those six years, there were a couple of semesters in which I worked full-time, taught part-time, took a full class load online, took an additional class at the community college, and tried assume some semblance of a father and husband.  There was hardly time to breath.  I was taught that hard work, sacrifice, and dedication result in success.  I still believe that to be true.

No one gave me anything.

I earned every achievement.

The accusation that “privilege” played a role in what I accomplished was impossible to consider.

Over the next days in that Kansan classroom, the words “white privilege” continued to spring up.  There were only seven or eight white males in the class.  I viewed the continued use of the term as a warning for us white guys to shut up.  It worked.

The final day we had a great discussion on why this subject repeatedly surfaced and how it impacted our group’s dynamics. I offered that we can be shut up and closed down, but questioned the cost to the group.  If we lose a perspective, we lose insight, and when we lose insight it negatively impacts our ability to make well-informed decisions.  It sounded good, but I felt as through I was grasping, trying to maintain the status quo.

I left Kansas and for much of the past year I have wrestled with the question of whether I am privileged.  I have reached the conclusion that I am.

I won’t speak for others from my gender, ethnicity, or social class.  But, these are a few of the privileges that I have personally enjoyed and from which I continue to derive benefits.

1.     I was privileged to have elementary school teachers who looked like me.  A recent John Hopkins University study found that having one black school teacher between the 3rd and 5th grades results in a 29% increase in high school graduation rates for African American students.  For very low income black boys, the results are even greater.  All of my elementary school teachers were white.  One was even male.
2.     I was privileged to have my father in my childhood home.  The impact of growing up in a fatherless home can adversely affect every aspect of a child’s development and adult life.  According to numbers from 2015, 25% of non-Hispanic white homes were without a father.  42% of Latino households and 66% of African American homes were fatherless.
3.     I am privileged to be male.  Even after the passage of the Equal Pay Act in 1963, women still only earn 79 cents for each dollar earned by men.  This number is the average across the United States.  In many states, the wage gap is much greater.  
4.     I was (and continue to be) privileged to have a broad network of friends and mentors with professional jobs.  Perhaps more important is the access I have to my friends’ professional networks.  Studies have shown that these extended relationships are key to finding jobs and advancing to higher level positions. 
5.     I am privileged to drive or walk down the street without arousing suspicion. North Carolina has collected traffic stop data since 2002.  In a report of the analysis of this data, a University of North Carolina article shows that black men are searched twice as often than white men during traffic stops.
6.     I am privileged to speak English.  The inability to speak or read English in our country removes the speaker from reams of information from traffic signs to healthy lifestyle literature to the ability to fill out job applications.  There are some who assume that someone who doesn’t speak English lacks intelligence.  And even if good English spoken, but with an accent, those same assumptions arise.

The list could go on.  Nothing from that list guaranteed me success.  It still required effort on my part.  At least that's the story I tell myself.


Perhaps I made this too personal.  I felt stung and dismissed when I heard those accusations of privilege last summer.  My initial emotional response was to push back and offer denials.  It has taken the better part of a year to sort through the emotions to the point where I can begin to consider this issue in a logical fashion.

But what if it isn’t about me?  What if the real story is the structures that we as white men have carefully constructed over the years to give us, our friends, and our families (especially our sons) a competitive edge?  Even those of us concerned about racial disparity and discrimination may still benefit from those structures, and unconsciously contribute to their maintenance. 

I have arrived at a point that I can admit I am privileged.  Doors have been opened because of my gender, skin color and social status.  Yet, that settled nothing in my mind.  What if this privilege is like a super hero's powers and can be used for either good or evil? If that is the case, now I have to consider how to use that privilege in a selfless way that benefits my community - my entire community - and not just me.  Or do I set this power aside and sit quietly as I did in Kansas?

But, I'm truly nagged by these social structures that I may unconsciously continue to construct and maintain.  How do I help address those structures that not just gives power to the powerful, but takes power from the powerless? That is the most difficult question of all.


Sunday, May 15, 2016

NC Wildlife Officers Killed in the Line of Duty

In 1962, President John F. Kennedy signed a proclamation designating May 15th as National Peace Officer Memorial Day and the calendar week of May 15th as National Police Week.  As part of this honoring of officers who have died in the line of duty, below are the North Carolina Wildlife Law Enforcement Officers who have died serving the citizens of North Carolina.  This serves as a reminder of the dangers faced by wildlife law enforcement officers each day.

*****

John W. Hollowell                 End of Watch:  August 30, 1930
Officer Hollowell was assaulted outside the Chowan County courthouse by three individuals whom he had just testified against for fishing violations.  He died as a result of injuries sustained in that assault.  Two of the subjects were charged and convicted in Officer Hollowell’s death.



Joseph D. Whitaker              End of watch:  November 15, 1936
Officer Whitaker was killed while working night deer hunting in Henderson County.  His assailants were never identified.


Joesph D.Whitaker

William I. Wright Jr.            End of Watch:  October 31, 1948
Officer Wright was thought to have been killed by a person or persons closed season hunting squirrels in Sampson County.  Although it was reported that his killers were known by police, no one was ever charged.

William G. Holler                  End of Watch:  October 19, 1951
Officer Holler was killed in an automobile accident in Mecklenburg County.



Amos M. Bordeaux               End of Watch:  April 10, 1962
Officer Bordeaux was accidentally killed in Sampson County while cleaning his service weapon after target practice.

Amos M. Bordeaux

John O. Edwards                  End of Watch:  August 3, 1963
Officer Edwards was killed in an automobile accident on his way home from a night deer hunting detail.  The accident occurred between Jacksonville and Kenansville, N.C.

John O. Edwards

Dewey H. McCall                  End of Watch:  September 5, 1971
Officer McCall was killed in Burke County after issuing an angler a citation for possession of undersized fish.  The angler left the area and returned to confront Officer McCall.  The assailant was shot by Officer McCall, but survived his injuries.

Dewey McCall

Troy M. Sigmon                    End of Watch:  September 1, 1978
Officer Sigmon was an area leader (a position now referred to as sergeant) in District Four.  He was flying as an observer in a helicopter near Whiteville, N.C. when it snagged a power line while looking for dove bait.  Officer Sigmon was killed when the helicopter crashed.  The pilot survived.

Troy Sigmon

Lloyd (Neil) Mayse                End of Watch:  November 27, 1980
Officer Mayse stopped two brothers for night deer hunting in Northhampton County.  One brother was riding on the hood while the other drove.  After stopping the pair a fight ensued followed by gunfire.  Officer Mayes killed one suspect and was then killed by the other.




parents of Neil Mayes receive a plaque honoring his sacrifice 

William A. Williamson          End of Watch:  December 4, 1985
Officer Williamson was responding to a call for assistance from an officer who had stopped a vehicle for night deer hunting.  He crashed his vehicle traveling to assist the officer and died on the scene.

William Williamson